
Switching schools for mental health can be a difficult decision. Watching your teen dread school every day is heartbreaking, and considering a different school isn’t a sign that you’ve failed as a parent. It’s a decision to prioritize their safety and well-being, and hopefully make it easier for them to thrive in school.
Research suggests that the school environment can significantly affect mental health. When an adolescent doesn’t feel comfortable and connected to their school, it can result in a number of mental health concerns, including depression and anxiety. The happiness of your teen in school is therefore deeply intertwined with their mental health.[1]
While changing schools may have a positive effect initially, in some scenarios, it could be avoiding or concealing a more significant clinical need. This article will outline what to consider when it comes to switching schools, including:
Before making a decision about switching schools, it’s important to explore with your teen where their distress is coming from. School stress can stem from both internal and external influences, which can affect how you approach it.
External factors are things happening to your teen at school. Internal factors are things happening inside your teen that school may be making worse. Both matter, but they require different responses.
Examples of external factors that could be affecting your child include:
Meanwhile, internal factors can include:
In particular, bullying has been linked to mental health concerns, including depression, anxiety, and self-harm.[2] While bullying is an external pressure, it can result in internal issues that affect student well-being. For example, a teen who is bullied may develop anxiety that persists long after the bullying stops.
With external factors, you should keep track of any changes in how they make your child feel. In some situations, external factors might resolve on their own when given time. A difficult teacher may leave, or a heavy workload may ease after exam season. However, if your teen continues to bring up these same issues, then talk to the school. If this provides no solution, it may be time to look at other schools.
With internal factors, simply changing schools may not be enough, as depression and anxiety may just follow your teen. In these cases, you should speak to a mental health professional to discuss the right course of action. Addressing the underlying condition is crucial, or you may find that the new school results in the same problems.
If your teen is presenting with mental health concerns, then you will be able to request formal school accommodations. Under Section 504, the school must assist with academic support. For example, they may alter your child’s timetable so they can fit in visits to the school counselor.[3] They may allow your teen to leave class early to avoid crowded hallways or provide a quiet space for them to go when feeling overwhelmed. These accommodations can make the school environment and expectations feel more manageable.
Another option is to request support meetings with the school to explore what teen mental health support they have available. They may have:[4]
Accessing school-based mental health resources can help improve your teen’s functioning at school and remove potential barriers to education.[5]
You can also explore supportive educational options such as academic modifications. These can include:[4]
Every school is different, so ask your teen’s school what modifications they offer. Keep records of what you’ve requested, what was agreed upon, and what was actually provided.
It may be that after trying all the above options, you believe switching schools for mental health reasons is the right decision. But a school change is a big disruption, so it’s important to take time to thoughtfully plan.
Consider all of these questions to help reduce any distress for your child during the switch:[6]
The first few weeks at a new school are hard for any teenager. For a teen with mental health issues, they can be especially difficult.
Switching schools for mental health can look different for every family. When considering the most appropriate next step, explore a variety of educational models to see what fits best for your child:
You may also wish to consider a hybrid mix of any of the above to best suit your teen’s immediate needs.
Whatever you decide, you should be prepared for a level of school transition anxiety. This anxiety is completely normal. Careful transition planning reduces the risk, but expect some difficult days. Even a positive change is still a change, and change is hard.[11]
While switching schools for mental health may resolve some of the concerns your teen is experiencing, there could be underlying factors, too. If there is a clinical concern present, further teen mental health support could be needed.
Your teen may be experiencing consistent racing thoughts, restlessness, and sleep disturbances, which are all in line with generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). This is a clinical diagnosis that involves uncontrollable worry that affects daily functioning.[12]
In this scenario, symptoms may not improve with changing schools. Anxiety will likely follow them, and there will be new sources of anxiety, such as new people and routines.
Another common mental health concern adolescents experience is depression. This is characterized by feeling hopeless, empty, and a loss of interest in the hobbies and subjects that your teen used to enjoy.[13] If you believe your teen is experiencing symptoms of depression, it is important to seek professional treatment. An environment and school change alone may be insufficient for managing clinical depression.[14]
Your teen’s mental health may continue to interfere with other aspects of their life, such as:
If so, it may be time to seek guidance from a professional.[15]
Mission Prep is here to help you or your loved one take the next steps towards an improved mental well-being.
While switching schools can provide relief from external factors mentioned previously, it cannot address the underlying issues.[14] Clinical intervention may be necessary to lessen distress and improve student well-being.
At Mission Prep Teen Treatment, we offer a variety of treatment programs and therapy services, providing personalized treatment for your teen. Regardless of whether you switch schools or not, our expert clinicians can help your child develop coping skills, emotional well-being, and resilience.
We approach the root causes of anxiety through a range of approaches, including:
We provide different forms and levels of care, including residential treatment and outpatient programs, individual and group interventions, telehealth services, and more. Mission Prep Teen Treatment accepts insurance and is in-network with most major providers. We are happy to help you check your insurance coverage for mental health care.
Whether your teen stays at their current school, moves to a new one, or takes time away from school entirely, we’re here to support your teen and your family. If you’d like to learn more about our locations and what we offer, contact us online or call 866-901-4047 to speak with a caring member of our team. We’re available 24/7 to answer your questions and provide guidance with no obligation.
Provide warm and supportive care that focuses on validating their concerns. Listen to them fully and emphasize that their happiness is more important than academic success. Try not to interrupt, criticize, or argue with what they’re saying, even if you don’t agree. Remind them that they can always approach you with any concerns they may have. Your support can make all the difference.[17]
You can also teach them grounding techniques, such as the 3-3-3 rule. Sometimes the most helpful thing you can do is simply be present. Your teen may just want to know that someone is listening and cares.
This is a simple, effective grounding technique that combines sight, sound, and movement. It can help if they’re feeling overwhelmed or experiencing school stress. Ask your teen to name 3 things they can see, 3 things they can hear, and finally, move 3 different parts of their body.[18]
Grounding techniques work because anxiety pulls us into the future, worrying about what might happen. Bringing attention back to the present moment interrupts the anxiety cycle.[19]
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