
Occasional forgetfulness is a normal part of life. We’ve all had the experience of walking into a room for something only to forget what it is as soon as we walk in. This is a blip in our working memory.
Working memory is the brain system that allows us to process and hold information for immediate use. For teens, minor memory or attention issues are often a regular part of their development, as the part of the brain mainly responsible for working memory (the prefrontal cortex) is still developing.[1]
But while occasional forgetfulness or concentration issues are normal, an ongoing pattern of them could point to deeper working memory problems. Challenges with memory, concentration, and attention can be frustrating and concerning for both teens and their parents. To help you better understand working memory problems, this page will explore:
Working memory is our brain’s ability to temporarily hold information in a form that’s immediately accessible.[2] Think of it like a mental notepad where your brain writes out a small amount of information that’s available long enough to do something about it.
Working memory is one of the brain’s cognitive skills that help us learn, plan, problem-solve, and control our impulses. It also works alongside attention and other aspects of executive functioning, which allows us to organize our behavior and work toward a goal.
For teens, this executive functioning skill might help them:
So when your teen experiences challenges with working memory, it’s not that they’re lazy or lacking intelligence or knowledge. They might understand the information but have trouble keeping enough of it active in their minds to use it effectively.
Not every teen with concentration problems or executive dysfunction will experience the same signs or effects in every situation. But there are some patterns to pay attention to that might point to your teen having working memory problems, such as:
Your teen might complete the first part of an instruction but forget what the next steps were. For example, you might ask them to put away their clothes, bring their laundry basket downstairs, and feed the dog. But they end up only putting the clothes away and forget the other two tasks.
This type of forgetfulness isn’t always intentional. The information may disappear from their mental workspace before they’ve had a chance to act on it. As a result, your teen might ask for directions several times, even when they appeared to understand them the first time.
Reading requires us to remember earlier words and ideas while processing new ones. Teens with working memory problems might reach the end of a paragraph without understanding what they just read. Because of these learning difficulties, they might end up needing to repeatedly reread the same passage or struggling to summarize what they learned.
Working memory plays an important role in nearly every school subject and in academic success. So working memory problems can contribute to learning difficulties, especially when assignments require your teen to listen, organize, remember, and respond at the same time.[3] If your teen has working memory challenges, they might start assignments but:
As a result, their school performance may not accurately reflect their knowledge or effort. They might study for a test and understand the subject at home, only to forget important information once they’re under pressure.
When your teen can’t keep track of everything they need to do, they might also experience problems with organization. They might regularly:
A messy room or forgotten assignment doesn’t mean there should be automatic concern that something’s wrong with their brain function. But when there’s repeated disorganization that interferes with their functioning, this may be a sign of working memory problems to look into.
Just as not everyone experiences the same signs of working memory problems, there’s also not one single cause. Mental health, sleep, stress, neurodevelopmental differences, and environment can all affect your teen’s cognitive skills.
Research shows that attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) can often be associated with executive dysfunction and deficits in working memory and short-term memory.[4] ADHD can affect your teen’s ability to:
For example, ADHD working memory challenges may cause your teen to remember they have homework while sitting in class, but forget it by the time they get home. Or they might start one task, become distracted by another, and then forget what they were originally doing.
But poor working memory doesn’t always mean your teen has ADHD. Just as having ADHD doesn’t automatically mean memory problems.
Your teen’s mental health can also affect working memory. When they feel anxious or depressed, their attention might be more focused on worries or fears, or they might have lower energy and concentration problems.[5]
If they’ve experienced trauma, they might spend more mental energy monitoring their surroundings for danger or coping with intrusive memories and have less capacity for everyday information.
In these situations, the memory problems may be more about emotional overload, so treating the underlying mental health condition can play an important part in improving executive function.
Sleep supports:
According to experts, teens generally need between eight and ten hours of sleep each night, but many don’t consistently get enough.[6]
Late-night homework, extracurricular schedules, early school start times, stress, and technology use can all reduce sleep. So before assuming that your teen’s symptoms reflect a disorder, consider whether they’re getting enough sleep.
Language-processing difficulties, reading disorders, or other learning differences may sometimes appear to be memory problems. For example, your teen might not be able to retain directions effectively if they didn’t have enough time to process the information in the first place.
The environment can also matter. Working memory may become overloaded when a classroom is noisy, or several people give instructions at once.
Mission Prep is here to help you or your loved one take the next steps towards an improved mental well-being.
Support for working memory problems often depends on what’s causing them. Some teens may need:
Others may benefit from therapy to address mental health concerns that might be making it harder to focus and retain information.
The most effective approach usually combines skill-building with support across home, school, and, when needed, treatment. Below, we’ll cover some ways you can support your teen with memory improvement.
Give your teen one or two directions at a time, rather than long instructions. Check with them that they understood by asking them what they’re going to start with. Then help them break larger assignments into smaller deadlines. For instance, if a teacher assigned a research paper, help your teen separate the topic selection, research, outline, first draft, and final revision into individual steps.
If your teen struggles with working memory, support them by encouraging the use of external tools and reminders. Some helpful supports might include:
You can also help them create a designated space for the things they most often forget, like backpacks, chargers, and school supplies.
These tools can improve organization and follow-through. Teens are also more likely to use a system consistently when they help choose and set it up.
Effective study skills can reduce the pressure placed on working memory. Instead of trying to hold too much information at once, help your teen organize learning into smaller and more active steps, like studying in shorter sessions or using flashcards. You can also help them review assignment instructions before turning in work and create a quiet space for them to study.
These strategies may support memory improvement while also helping teens better understand how they learn.
While therapy doesn’t simply “fix” working memory, it can help address any underlying emotional, behavioral, or attention-related concerns. Some helpful therapies that can support attention and memory improvement include:
Treatment should be individualized because two teens can show similar working memory problems for very different reasons.
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At Mission Prep Teen Treatment, we recognize that mental health challenges can affect working memory, but that working memory problems can also cause your teen emotional distress. By combining evidence-based approaches, like CBT and psychodynamic therapy, with holistic support like somatic therapy and mindfulness, we address the full range of your teen’s needs, not just their symptoms.
Whether it’s depression or anxiety affecting their concentration, or learning difficulties influencing their mood, our personalized treatment programs can address their concerns and help them develop strategies for improving emotional regulation and attention.
Whether your teen could benefit from residential treatment at one of our locations in California or Virginia, or something more flexible like an outpatient mental health program or virtual telehealth to treat their mental health concerns, our team can help.
Mission Prep Teen Treatment accepts insurance and is in-network with most major providers. We are happy to help you check your insurance coverage for mental health care.
If working memory problems are leaving your teen feeling as though they’re constantly falling behind, contact us online or call 866-901-4047 to speak with a caring member of our team. We’ll help them understand their needs, find the practical tools that work for them, and build skills that prepare them for life beyond treatment. Reach out for a free, no-obligation conversation.
When teens experience working memory difficulties, many parents wonder what causes them and whether they should be concerned. Here, we’ll address some of the most common questions we hear from parents about poor working memory, ADHD, testing, and treatment.
There are many possible causes of poor working memory. ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, chronic stress, inadequate sleep, learning differences, or an overstimulating environment can all contribute to attention and concentration problems.
Because several concerns can cause similar symptoms, it’s important to consider the teen’s emotional health, sleep, development, learning needs, and functioning across different settings.
There are a few ways to test working memory. One of the most common tests is complex span tasks. Complex span tasks require you to remember a set of items in the correct order while also doing another unrelated task.[7] There are different types of complex span tasks that measure issues within working memory. Testing may involve tasks that ask your teen to repeat numbers in a particular order, remember visual patterns, follow multi-step directions, or mentally organize information.
No, poor working memory doesn’t mean your teen is unintelligent. Working memory is not the same as intelligence. Your teen can be creative, insightful, and capable of understanding complex ideas while still finding it hard to hold information in their mind. Appropriate tools and support can help them show what they know more consistently.
At Mission Prep, we help teens with working memory problems by addressing any underlying mental health concerns and helping them develop the tools and supports that best work for them. We also help them improve confidence that may be affected by poor working memory.
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