How Family Financial Stress Affects Teen Mental Health

Money problems can affect teen mental health in several ways. Under financial stress, some teens may feel anxious or responsible for helping their family. Others may experience lasting difficulties linked to childhood financial hardship.

Helping your teen navigate financial stress begins with understanding how it can affect teen mental health. In this article, you’ll learn: 

  • What financial stress is.
  • How financial hardship affects adolescents’ mental health.
  • Warning signs to look out for.
  • Types of treatments available for teens and families under financial strain.
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What Is Financial Stress?

Financial stress is the emotional and psychological strain that’s caused by money-related problems. Financial well-being includes being able to meet current and ongoing financial obligations.[1] When this ability is reduced, families can experience stress.

Financial hardship can be brought on by:[1] 

  • A loss of income.
  • Retirement.
  • A new child in the household.
  • High levels of debt.
  • Unexpected bills.
  • Rising living costs. 

Family changes like financial stress, as well as things like divorce, parental illness, and moving, can put significant strain on the whole family system. Even when you try to keep adult concerns from your children, it’s likely that they have some sense of the difficulties.

Crucially, “financial stress” doesn’t always mean poverty. Some of the research discussed in this article is centered around families living in poverty; other sources examine financial strain more broadly. Many families can face financial insecurity, even those with higher incomes.[2] 

What matters when it comes to financial anxiety in teens is the effect of money problems on teen mental health. This can be seen in the following research:

  • Children in households that are facing financial strain tend to report lower well-being. In a 2023 study, 8% of children not facing financial stress reported low well-being; meanwhile, 16% reported low well-being in families that were facing financial stress.[2] 
  • However, of children who thought that their family was poorer than average, 20% reported low well-being.[2] This suggests that it’s not just financial strain that can affect children, but also their subjective sense of their family’s finances. 

So, while poverty and teen mental health are closely linked, money problems in middle- and higher-income families can still affect well-being.

How Financial Stress Impacts Teen Mental Health

Research shows that children and teenagers are more likely to struggle with mental health difficulties if they grow up in a family that has significant debt or a low income. Children in these situations report feeling:[3] 

  • Guilty for not being able to help.
  • Stressed and anxious about the strain.
  • Embarrassed in comparison to their richer peers.  

For some teens, these feelings may persist and contribute to longer-term mental health difficulties.

Anxiety

One of the main ways financial stress impacts teen mental health is by creating anxiety. There are several different anxiety disorders, characterized by: 

  • Excessive worrying.
  • High levels of physical tension.
  • Irrational threat perception.
  • Avoidance behaviors. 

This may occur in children witnessing their parents’ financial stress, as they’re exposed to a high sense of risk.[4] Anxiety may reflect a desire for control, or it could link to a belief that the world is risky and difficult. 

Research reported by The Children’s Society found that one fifth of children said that they were “always” or “often” worrying about their family’s finances and that half worried about it “sometimes.”[2] 

Parentification

“Parentification” occurs when parents impose inappropriate expectations on their children to: 

  • Be responsible.
  • Provide support.
  • Shoulder their concerns. 

Typically, it’s talked about in the context of children caring for their younger siblings or taking care of their parent who may be struggling physically or emotionally.[5] This goes beyond normal and appropriate childhood responsibilities such as household chores. Instead, it refers to excessive or developmentally inappropriate levels of responsibility.

This phenomenon tends to occur in stressed family systems. Whether there is disability, alcoholism, divorce, or financial stress, parentification can occur unintentionally when the family system is under strain.[5] 

In the context of financial strain, children might be parentified in the following ways:

  • Knowing inappropriate details of the parents’ financial situation.
  • Providing emotional support for stressed parents.
  • Feeling obligated to leave school to work and provide for their family.
  • Feeling responsible for solving financial problems they cannot control.
  • Taking care of younger siblings while parents are at work.
  • Providing reassurance to their parents that they are still happy despite money problems.

Parentification can affect a child’s psychology and well-being. It is associated with:[5] 

  • Poorer developmental outcomes.
  • Emotional and behavioral problems.
  • Substance use.
  • Lower self-esteem. 

Conflict

Parental financial stress may be experienced by teens who witness their caregivers trying to cope with their own money-related stress or depression. This can be hard on children, and witnessing conflict about finances is known to be harmful.[3]  

Children who grow up in financial instability are more likely to experience turmoil and conflict.[4] This can put them at risk of emotional and behavioral issues, like those mentioned above. Witnessing conflict at home may make children feel scared, which can lead to: 

Depression and Low Self-Esteem

Depression is another risk of growing up with financial issues. Research suggests that this link is due to exposure to cumulative risk. This means that it’s not just the money-related concerns, but other poverty-related social challenges that come with it.[4] 

Some young people contacting support services described financial pressures affecting their self-esteem and making them feel like a burden. Experts find children growing up in a financially strained environment may struggle with their self-esteem, particularly if they compare themselves to their peers who can afford what they can’t.[6] 

Children in these circumstances may feel like a burden, feel a lack of independence and autonomy, and experience poor relationships with family members.[6] These factors may be risk factors for developing depression, along with other mental health issues.

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Signs Your Teen Is Feeling the Family Financial Stress

When financial stress affects teen mental health, it can show up in a variety of different ways. Signs that family money problems are affecting your teenager can include:

  • Asking you about money more frequently, such as checking if the family can afford something.
  • Reluctance to ask you for money like they used to, such as saying they no longer need pocket money.
  • Feeling guilty about spending money and withdrawing from activities that cost money, such as going to the cinema with friends.
  • Other signs of worsening mental health, such as irritability, sleep problems, low mood, anxiety, relationship strife, and declining performance at school.

If you notice any of these signs or you’re worried about how the family finances are affecting your children, it might be time to seek professional support.

Parents can help by discussing money honestly in ways that suit their teen’s age and understanding. Explain what is changing and what steps you are taking, while making clear that solving the family’s financial problems is an adult responsibility. 

Give your teen space to ask questions and share worries without judgment. They may feel guilty about needing clothes, school supplies, or money for activities, even if you have never suggested they should. 

Reassure them that their needs matter. Support from friends, relatives, and school counselors can also help families cope with financial strain and give teens somewhere to discuss concerns.[3] 

Treatment Options for Teens During Periods of Family Stress

Counseling and psychotherapy can feel out of reach for families that are stressed about money. However, many U.S. states have charitable and low-cost counseling services available. Some may even have particular services for people on a low income. So, it’s always worth exploring those options for teen anxiety about money.

If you can find low-cost services or access others within your means, there is a wide range of therapies that can treat financial stress and teen mental health. You might come across the following:

  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT can often be carried out by low-cost services as it’s practical and easy to deliver. Teens will be helped to understand how their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact and create a cycle that maintains poor mental health. They’ll likely come away with practical tools for coping with hardship.
  • Family therapy: If the whole family is experiencing the same emotional strain, family therapy can be helpful. It can foster communication, forgiveness, and compassion between members, aided by the therapist in the room with you. 
  • Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): ACT is a form of CBT that places greater emphasis on mindfulness and acting within one’s values and principles. It can foster greater self-awareness and nurture a commitment to self-compassion.

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Ease Teen Financial Stress With Support From Mission Prep Teen Treatment

If you’re worried about your teen’s mental health as a result of financial hardship, there is support available. Understandably, you may be limited due to financial reasons, but Mission Prep Teen Treatment offers a wide range of therapeutic support and tailored treatment programs for adolescents.

Whether your teen could benefit from residential treatment at one of our locations or something more flexible, like an outpatient mental health program delivered virtually, our team can help. 

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