
Many teenagers experience a low mood from time to time. However, if a teen feels “down” more often than they feel “up,” or if they’ve stopped taking pleasure in things they used to enjoy, there might be something deeper going on.
For a teenager, depression can feel like being stuck in a room that used to have a window and doors, but no longer does. They can remember what the outside of this dark room used to look like, but the longer they’re stuck, the harder the outside is to recall. They might feel like no matter what they do, they can’t escape this dark, suffocating place.
If you or someone you care about is concerned about depression, know that you don’t have to cope with these feelings alone. There are lots of support options available for depression and for helping you feel better.
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Depression can show up differently from person to person and can also vary according to the type of depression a teen has. For example, one teen might be highly aware of their negative emotions, while another might feel “numb” and unaware of their feelings.
Despite these differences in experiences, there are still some common early warning signs to look out for if you’re worried about depression in a teen. These signs may help you or a loved one better understand if support and help are needed.
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) is what mental health professionals use to classify and diagnose mental health conditions. According to the DSM-5, the following are the common warning signs of depression:1
Aside from these warning signs, a teen may also experience emotional, behavioral, and physical signs of depression, which we’ll discuss in more detail.
As a result of certain changes to the brain that can lead to or are caused by depression, teens may experience the following changes in emotions.2-4
As the emotions associated with depression can feel like too much for them to cope with, a teen’s behaviors can be affected in the following ways:2,5,6
Although depression is often thought of as a purely “mental” or “emotional” condition, this belief is actually quite far from the truth. Depression can cause physical changes to the brain and body, such as the following:7-9
The emotional, behavioral, and physical symptoms of teenage depression go some way toward illustrating what depression can look like in a teen. However, if left untreated, depression can actually cause long-term problems for a teenager’s life, including:10-13
With these signs and effects in mind, you might be wondering what to do if you see early signs of depression. If you’re concerned, there are many avenues of mental health support open to you, such as talking to a mental health professional. However, there are steps you can take in the here and now.
It can be difficult to talk about your own depression or to talk to someone you love about theirs. However, talking about depression with family members, friends, mental health professionals, groups, or school mentors can help you understand that you’re not alone. There’s not as much of a stigma around mental health as there was in previous years, but it’s still important to keep breaking down these barriers to promote positive well-being.
If you’re concerned about a teenager’s mental health, you could try approaching the discussion about depression in the following ways.
Depression is a sensitive topic, and a teen might feel like they’ll be judged or not understood. It’s important to pick a place and time when they’ll be most likely to open up. For example, perhaps in the morning when they feel overwhelmed about the day ahead isn’t the best idea. Instead, maybe wait until after dinner when they feel more at ease.
Not every teen will be willing to discuss how they’re feeling. Yet, if you’re concerned, it’s important to let them know that you’re aware of what they’re going through and are there to support them. You could open the conversation with pre-prepared lines like:
It can be tough to hear about how someone you love is struggling, but don’t respond with judgment or shock. Teenagers with depression often battle against feelings of guilt and shame, so it’s important to keep in control of your responses so that they don’t close up. And, remember, teenagers with depression can’t just “shake off” their bad mood, so try to validate how they’re feeling by saying things like, “That must be difficult for you. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but I’m glad you told me.”
Even if a teen doesn’t want to talk to you about depression right now, it doesn’t mean they won’t want to in the future. Letting them know you’re there for them, no matter when or how they need your help, can relieve some of the pressure they might be feeling.
If they do feel like talking about how they’re feeling, you could offer them practical support, such as helping them find resources for improving their mental health or going with them to talk to a mental health professional.
Although it may be hard to do in light of what you’ll hear about their feelings, it’s good to maintain structure and routine after a conversation about depression. You might be tempted to take over things like their household chores or let them take a few days off school, but structure can help a teen with depression. However, you can praise them for taking even small actions or ask what tasks they need support with the most.
Plus, even if a teen has stopped showing interest in quality time with you, it’s good to keep doing things together – even if it’s small activities like taking a walk or watching a favorite movie. The small things in life matter.
It can be difficult to look after someone else’s mental health if you’re not looking after your own. Sometimes, it may be tempting to sacrifice your own needs for those of someone else, but in the long run, this won’t benefit anyone. Try to find ways to relax and practice self-care. Life is all about balance – it’s both OK and important to look after yourself too.
Depression poses a serious risk to a teen’s mental and physical health – and it can be difficult to manage on your own. Therapy with a trained mental health professional can help a teen understand what they’re going through and feel hopeful again about the future.
There are a number of effective therapy options for teen depression, including:
CBT can help teens with depression to identify and understand their negative thoughts. It can also target how to challenge these thoughts, build healthy ways of coping with them, and transition these skills into the world outside of therapy.
This form of therapy helps teens understand how problems in relationships can contribute to their feelings – and how to work through these issues.
EMDR can help teens process previous experiences that may lead to depression in a safe, supportive environment. EMDR changes the way trauma is stored in the brain and helps a teen build more positive self-beliefs and ways of coping with life’s challenges.
A doctor may also recommend medication for depression. However, medication is usually most effective when combined with talk therapy.
Teenagers may experience depression in different ways, but if you notice the signs of depression mentioned in yourself or someone you care about, it’s important to take action. Early intervention is key for managing the emotional, behavioral, and physical effects of depression on a teen’s life. However, seeking support at any stage can help – it’s never too late to reach out.
Professional mental health treatment is often the most beneficial step anyone can take toward better well-being. It can feel daunting to open up about depression, but Mission Prep is here to help.
Talking about depression is a sign of strength, and Mission Prep can help you heal. Our depression treatment options include inpatient and outpatient programs in various locations that can get to the root causes of teen depression in empathetic, personal ways. Contact us today for support and advice.
Common signs include persistent low mood, loss of interest or pleasure, changes in sleep and weight/appetite, fatigue, guilt or worthlessness, difficulty concentrating, noticeable slowing down or agitation, and thoughts about death.
Depression symptoms tend to last and noticeably interfere with daily life—affecting emotions, behavior, school performance, relationships, and physical health—rather than coming and going with typical day-to-day stress.
Start a calm, nonjudgmental conversation at a good time and place, listen more than you talk, validate what they’re feeling, and encourage support from trusted adults or a mental health professional. Keeping healthy routines (sleep, meals, movement) can also help while getting additional care in place.
Evidence-based options include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), interpersonal therapy, and EMDR when past experiences are a contributing factor. Medication may also be recommended in some cases and is often most effective alongside therapy.
If symptoms persist, worsen, or start affecting safety, school, relationships, or daily functioning, professional support is important. Early intervention can help, and support can still be effective even if symptoms have been present for a while.

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