Creative Identity Expression in Teenss: Art, Music, and Therapeutic Healing

If you’ve been trying to get your teen to open up about how they’re feeling, you’ll know what it’s like to run into the same wall over and over again. You ask them the question, and the response is a shrug or a classic “I’m fine” that you worry may really mean the opposite. 

This can be frustrating, especially if your child has been diagnosed with a mental health condition that would benefit from them opening up.

But the difficulty your teen has with verbal expression may not be an unwillingness to converse. It could be to do with the medium of talking itself. Not every teen can access what they’re feeling through conversation, and for some, being asked to sit down and talk about their emotions is the least effective way to reach them.

When this is the case, creative therapies can help teens explore and express their feelings without words. This guide will cover: 

  • Why some teens struggle to express themselves with words
  • How expressive therapy for adolescents works
  • Art therapy and identity exploration
  • Music therapy for teenagers’ mental health
  • What creative therapy for teens looks like
  • How you can continue creative therapy for teens at home
  • How Mission Prep can help
Sad teenage girl looking out the window struggling with creative identity expression in teens

Why Some Teens Struggle to Express Themselves With Words

If you find that your teen finds it difficult to articulate their feelings to you, it can be easy to assume that they’re shutting you out on purpose. Raising a teen is hard, and there are often moments where parents are unsure as to whether their child momentarily finds them “uncool” or not worth talking to. 

While this can happen in some cases, it’s not always the reason. The true situation is often a lot more complicated than that, and the difficulty can come from biology as much as anything else.

The prefrontal cortex is the part of the brain responsible for abstract thought and the ability to label complex emotions. [1] This part of the brain doesn’t fully mature until the mid-20s, meaning in a lot of cases, teens simply can’t express their feelings as well as they’d like to.[1]

Emotional reactivity runs high while the cognitive architecture needed to process and express those emotions is still being built. You can almost imagine this like scaffolding around this part of the brain. The structure has been built, but the detailed parts are yet to be completed.

There is also a condition called alexithymia, which is a measurable difficulty in identifying and describing feelings.2 Research estimates that 10 to 20% of adolescents experience alexithymia, so it’s not rare and it may possibly apply to your child.[2] Another study showed that alexithymia predicted worsening depression, anxiety, and stress as a child gets older. [2]

With these two factors in mind, adolescent emotional expression therapy becomes important. If words simply aren’t working for your teen, therapy could be the route to take.

How Expressive Therapy for Adolescents Works

Expressive therapy for adolescents can be effective because it removes the pressure of having to explain yourself, especially when you’re not even sure how you’re feeling. Instead of traditional forms of therapy, where they’d be sitting across from a therapist and asked to describe what’s going on inside, your teen can show it through something they make.

One review found that three mechanisms are unique to creative arts therapy.[3]

  • The first is embodiment, where the body itself becomes a way to express emotions. 
  • The second is concretization, where abstract internal experiences become tangible through something the teen creates.
  • The third is symbolism, where feelings that can’t easily be verbalized are communicated through creative imagery.

In practice, this might look like:

A teen who can’t tell you exactly why they feel trapped might paint something that shows it. A teen who can’t articulate grief might write it into a song.

The creative medium becomes the language they use to express emotions, and for many teens, it is the first time they are able to communicate what’s actually going on.

Strong reviews have found that this approach produced effects on both internalizing problems, like anxiety, and externalizing problems, like aggression.[4]

Art Therapy and Identity Exploration

There are many ways a teen can express themselves creatively, but one of the most researched areas is through art. 

For a teen who is trying to work out who they are, while simultaneously managing a mental health condition, it can be an exhausting spot to be in. These two things can become entangled with each other until the condition can start to feel like their only identity.

Art therapy can give your child the tools they need to express what they’re feeling. Identity exploration through art allows teens to externalize their inner world by placing their feelings onto paper or canvas. They can look at their ideas from the outside, rather than trying to view them from the inside.

A mixed-method study followed teens through eight weeks of group art therapy and then checked in again at 12 months.[5] The teens reported getting to know themselves better through the process and being able to notice their own emotions in ways they hadn’t before.

Their self-concept scores improved and, crucially, stayed improved at the 12-month follow-up, along with the added benefit of improved peer relationships.[5]

Clinical evidence for art therapy for depressed teens is equally strong. One meta-analysis found that art-based interventions produced “moderate-to-large” reductions in depressive symptoms, with measurable clinical outcomes. [6]

For teens who struggle with talk therapy, art can be the outlet that actually reaches them.

Music Therapy for Emotional Release and Connection

Music is another well-researched creative outlet and one that more teens probably already have a relationship with before they ever step into a treatment setting.

The research into music therapy for teenagers’ mental health supports what most parents intuitively know, with meta-analyses showing that music-based interventions had a strong effect on reducing symptoms of both depression and anxiety.[7] 

Another review found that four out of seven favored music therapy for improving depressive symptoms, with none favoring the control condition over music therapy.8 Simply put, music therapy was never found to make depressive symptoms worse and helped in over half of the cases observed.

However, there is a big difference between listening to music and creating music. Creating music puts teens into a process where they’re producing something rather than just consuming it. The move from passive to active is often where much of the therapeutic value lies. 

What Does Creative Mental Health Support Look Like?

Creative therapy involves scheduled sessions with a trained therapist who uses modalities like art or music as the main medium for therapeutic work.

A typical session might begin with a ‘feelings check-in’, where your teen is asked to show how they’re feeling in that moment, using whatever medium is available. 

The therapist may then introduce a specific theme or prompt, or perhaps even take a more open-ended approach where your teen leads the direction of the session. Both approaches have been found to produce positive outcomes, and therapists can adapt their style based on what the teen needs on any given day.[4]

Sessions can run between 60 and 90 minutes and can take place one-on-one or within a small group.[8]  Group settings provide your teen the chance to work alongside peers who are going through similar experiences. This adds an extra element of connection without requiring anyone to talk about their problems directly.

What your teen creates during these sessions is handled with a lot of care. Some programs collect artwork over the course of treatment so that you, your teen, and the therapist can look back at the journey and see how things have changed.[9] It is important to remember that the therapist’s role is not to interpret what the art “means”. Research on adolescent art therapy specifically notes that teens are suspicious of having their work analyzed, and good therapists know this.[9]

How to Continue Creative Expression at Home

If your teen is responding well to creative expression, it doesn’t need to be something limited to therapy sessions. In some therapeutic environments, it can be best to leave the heavy work to the therapist, but with creative expression, you don’t need any clinical training to support it at home.

Below are some easy ways to make your home a place where your teen feels comfortable enough to express themselves creatively.

Make Materials Accessible

A sketchbook on the kitchen table, a set of watercolors left in their room, a guitar always ready on a stand in the living room. These thoughtful placements show your teen that creative time is absolutely available within the home and can be practiced at any time.

If your child lacks confidence in creative activities, the home can be the perfect place to build that confidence. They can experiment with art and music without anybody listening or watching what they’re doing.

Ask About the Process Rather Than the Output

If your teen shows you something they’ve made, resist the urge to evaluate it. Instead of saying, “That’s really good,” try “What was it like making that?” or “How did it feel working on this?”

This keeps the focus on the experience, rather than the outcome. The focus isn’t on whether it is artistically sound or not, but on how they express themselves through it.

Encourage Expressive Writing 

Research found that just 15 to 20 minutes of expressive writing over a three to four-day period showed significant improvements in emotional distress and social adjustments in adolescents.[10] 

A separate trial found similar results, with the positive effects lasting until the six-week follow-up.[11]

Let Music Be More Than Background Noise

If your teen already listens to music, encourage them to try making it. You don’t need to sign them up for music lessons, but it could be as simple as suggesting they experiment with a free app or write lyrics in a notebook.

As noted above, the change from passive listening to active creation is often where the therapeutic value increases.

Teenage girls during creative identity expression in teens

How Mission Prep Can Help

If your teen finds it hard to express what they’re going through and traditional talk therapy hasn’t been connecting with them, creative therapeutic approaches could be the way forward.

Mission Prep integrates various forms of therapeutic self-expression for teens into our treatment programs. This includes art therapy, music therapy, and other proven creative therapy activities for teenagers.

We understand that not every teen communicates the same way, and the ones who have the hardest time with words are sometimes the ones who have the most to say.

Our residential facilities are designed for teens and are available across multiple locations in the US

We work with teens experiencing mental health conditions that include depression, anxiety, trauma, and other complex presentations. We provide evidence-based approaches, like eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), as core elements in our mental health treatment. Creative therapy approaches complement these for a holistic approach to care.

If you’re unsure as to whether your teen would benefit from this kind of support, contact Mission Prep today. A member of our team will be happy to talk you through what treatment looks like for your child’s specific situation.