
If you were asked to look back on your own teen years and summarize the emotions you felt, we’re pretty confident the word “rollercoaster” would sum them up well. Now, your teen is going through the same thing, and you can’t help but sympathize with them. It’s a tough time to go through, but the difference is that when you were going through it, you may not have had anyone explain what was actually happening to you.
This page aims to change that by breaking down the hormonal mood swings teens go through and why those changes hit as hard as they do. But perhaps most importantly, this page aims to show you how to tell the difference between normal teen behavior and behavior that may point to the need for extra support. It will cover:
Before you can start to make sense of what your teen is going through emotionally, it first helps to understand what’s going on inside their bodies.
Puberty involves several hormonal systems activating around the same time, and the way in which they interact with each other can contribute to many of the emotional changes you’re seeing at home.
When the female reproductive system activates, the ovaries start producing estrogen and progesterone in pulses. Instead of a slow and gradual release, they follow a roughly 28-day rhythm where levels rise and fall dramatically.
In boys, testosterone production increases by around 20 to 30 times over the course of puberty.[1] A similar thing happens in girls, where hormonal increases often come in surges rather than a smooth and steady climb.
Stress systems are also going through some big changes during puberty. While research says there’s less clear evidence in boys, for girls, cortisol levels significantly increase as they progress through development.[2] What this means is that your teen’s stress response is being recalibrated at the same time as their reproductive hormones are coming online.
Melatonin is another hormone that plays an important role in adolescence. During puberty, teens can expect a decrease in melatonin, and this can interfere with natural sleep patterns.[3] If your teen is being difficult around bedtimes, it may be that a biological change is preventing them from falling asleep at their usual time.
All parents with teens are aware of the mood swings and quick changes in emotions, but if they were asked to explain what is actually going on under the surface, not many would be able to explain the specifics. This section explores the connection between teen hormones and mental health.
The prefrontal cortex is the part of the brain that’s responsible for:
It is also one of the last regions of the brain to fully mature. Research explains that this difference is because the emotional centers of the brain develop faster than the regulatory systems.[4]
Adolescent brain development and emotions are fundamentally mismatched during this period. Think of it like having a powerful accelerator with brakes that are still being fitted. Your teen feels emotions at their full intensity, but the part of the brain that helps keep things controlled is still maturing. Strong feelings, therefore, arrive before the tools to manage them are fully in place.
Brain imaging studies confirm this and show that teen emotional regulation during puberty improves with age.[5] This means in a lot of cases where your teen seems to overreact, it may be down to their brain not yet developing the necessary “tools” to respond more calmly.
Hormonal changes affect the body physically, but they also influence the brain chemicals that control how your teen feels.
For example, in girls, estrogen affects serotonin and also influences dopamine. Progesterone breaks down allopregnanolone and creates a natural calming effect on the brain.[6]
When levels of these hormones fluctuate, the brain chemicals they influence fluctuate too, which can contribute to emotional instability in teens. This type of interplay helps to explain why the days before their period can feel like an emotional rollercoaster for teenage girls.
The way puberty affects mood can look very different depending on gender. Understanding these differences can help you respond to them appropriately and understand if what you’re seeing can be attributed to hormones.
Once periods begin, many girls start to notice mood changes that follow an almost predictable monthly rhythm. Research on premenstrual symptoms in teens found that at least 20% of girls experience symptoms that genuinely interfere with their daily lives.[7]
The most commonly reported PMS mood symptoms in teen girls are irritability and anxiety in the week or so before menstruation.[7]
A smaller number of girls develop something called PMDD, which is, in its basic form, a more severe version of the premenstrual symptoms. This is important to understand because the symptoms are serious enough to disrupt school and home life.
Research suggests this may be just as common in teens as it is in adults, so it’s something worth keeping an eye on if you notice your teen is really struggling around the time of their period.[7]
The popular belief is that testosterone is behind mood changes in teen boys, but the research tells us that this isn’t necessarily the case.
One review concluded that there isn’t currently enough evidence to confirm that rising testosterone levels are what cause mood and behavior changes in teen boys.[1] Some research actually found that lower testosterone levels are linked to potentially serious problems. For example, there is an association between lower levels of testosterone and more depressive symptoms.[8]
What this means for you as a parent is that if your son has been persistently irritable or withdrawn, the standard “raging hormones” explanation may be missing something that needs more attention.
Mission Prep is here to help you or your loved one take the next steps towards an improved mental well-being.
If you’ve been observing your teen’s behavior, it’s easy to wonder whether what you’re seeing is still classed within the ‘normal’ range.
The honest answer is that there isn’t a specific list of symptoms that, without a professional assessment, can definitively say your teen needs help. That said, there are signs that can help you decide when it’s time to seek the opinion of a mental health professional.
Normal hormonal mood swings come and go, especially when they’re tied to:
The key thing is that they eventually pass. Sometimes the antidote is just a great night’s sleep or a good afternoon with friends, but the mood swings do eventually calm down.
But if you’ve noticed things like frequent low moods for a continuous two-week stretch or longer, it’s time to consider professional evaluation for your child.[9]
The second signal is whether these emotional changes affect your teen’s everyday life. No matter what age a person is, we all experience a change in mood from time to time. But if these changes in mood consistently start to affect how someone copes on a daily basis, professional help should be considered.
For teens specifically, signs that something beyond typical puberty may be going on include:
If you’ve spent any time around teenagers, you’ll know that they can be prone to exaggeration. One bad day at school can feel like the end of the world, and a falling out with a friend can feel like it will never be resolved.
When you add hormonal fluctuations on top of that, it becomes easy to develop a habit of brushing off what they say as exaggeration.
This is not a “failing” on your part. As anyone raising teens will know too well, the line between genuine distress and typical teenage drama is genuinely hard to read, and it can move from week to week.
But it’s worth remembering that hormone-related depression in teens does develop during this period, and more frequently than many parents might expect:
These numbers are high enough that when your teen keeps telling you something is wrong, you should take it seriously. But even when you are conscious that they may need help, what does that look like?
If you’ve noticed your teen going through big emotional changes, making sure you’re helping them in the right way is key. Sometimes, too much help can push them away, while too little can allow potential problems to grow. Below, we explore some of the ways you can help your teen through this rocky period of their life.
Telling your teen, “It’s just hormones” may be partly true, but it can also shut down a conversation you need to keep open.
Research on how parents respond to their teens’ emotions has consistently found that listening and acknowledging what they’re feeling, even when it seems disproportionate, leads to better emotional development over time.[12]
Dismissing or punishing emotional expression is linked to higher rates of anxiety and depression during puberty in teens.[12]
You don’t need to do anything too big at this point. Just letting your child know that they can come to you when things feel too much can be more than enough help.
There are many times when teens aren’t able to articulate exactly how they feel. But keeping track of what you’re seeing over a period of time can help you understand where they’re at right now.
Keeping an eye on things like mood, sleep, appetite, and social activity over a few weeks can give you a much clearer picture of whether things are fluctuating naturally or heading in a worrying direction.
Supporting teen emotional regulation during puberty often starts with just making space for their feelings rather than trying to fix them immediately.
The two-week rule, which we mentioned earlier, is a good rule of thumb to follow. If your teen has been persistently low, irritable, or withdrawn for two weeks or more and it’s affecting their daily life, book an appointment with their pediatrician or a mental health provider.If your teen mentions self-harm or talks about not wanting to be alive, seek same-day help. Contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.
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If anything on this page has resonated with you, we understand what a tricky spot it is to be in. Do you wait it out, like with most teen behavior? Or is it something that needs to be acted upon now?
If you’re not sure exactly what your teen needs, but you’re certain something isn’t right, that’s a strong sign that support is needed. Mission Prep Teen Treatment provides mental health treatment for teens at our locations in California and Virginia.
We offer residential treatment in thoughtfully designed, healing environments for teens who need around-the-clock care. Flexible outpatient programs are also available for adolescents who need flexibility and treatment that works around their daily schedule.
Our experienced clinical team works with teens dealing with mental health conditions like depression and anxiety.
We understand that puberty-related emotional changes in adolescents can sometimes mask or overlap with more serious conditions. Our assessments are designed to distinguish between the two.
Treatment for your teen meets them where they’re at, meaning any recent emotional changes are taken into consideration alongside their developmental stages.
If you’re not sure where to begin and would like to understand your options, contact us online or call us at 866-901-4047.
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